Has anyone ever notice Cancer is always distructive and overbearing?!

Has anyone ever notice Cancer is always distructive and overbearing?

This would apply especially to Cancer rising like president Bush and Mercury Cancer. Wide spread chaos, destruction, obstruction, and absolute control seem to be the mainstays of Cancer characteristics. Cancer never seems to be able to put their cancerous finger on what needs to be done but instead flows ahead with subversion and undercutting of foundation others have laid. Cancers cling to whatever they first chose and never seem to accept they can ever, ever be wrong. They seem like the just pubescent child believing this fresh onset of puberty gives them the right, knowledge, and wisdom owned by an experienced adult. They then blunder ahead creating quagmire and suffering with their endless bad decisions.

Quite a few Cancers that I have known for years, I have had nothing but conflict with. The issues I have encountered repeatedly are 1) very argumentative 2) abrupt nasty comments (that I cant make sense of), and 3) misinterpreting situations altogether, thus creating a non-existent conflict (its exhausting).

However, I have met some Cancers in recent years that are quite cordial.

Would you list your sign, please? I'm curious. I'm a Scorpio, so per what is written, I should be on the same wavelength as Cancers, but the conflict with some is so bad, I avoid them all together.

Recently I heard that an overload of Cancer in a chart, i.e., Sun, Moon, Mercury, and Mars, can cause an inbalance in the person (though this can can happen in an overload of any sign). As Cancers are very sensitive to begin with, this "oversensitizes them". My guess is they don't even realize this.

What I'm trying to do, is just keep the humor coming to the Cancers that are in my life (family, etc.). This seems to quell the negativity. Also, try talking about something interesting that is positive.