How would a scorpio react if i said 'i love you'...when r background is like thi!


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How would a scorpio react if i said 'i love you'...when r background is like this....?

Ok, so i've known this scorpio boy for quite some time now and at the start(when we were 'properly' dating) he was so sweet and nice to me but i kinda did play hard to get and ended up insulting him a few times, which probably may have made it seem like i wasnt serious about wanting a relationship...and he himself btw said to me that he wants a relationship with me. we then broke up cus he felt that 'in different circumstances the relationship would have worked'... and i have no idea what the hell he was on about cuz his life seems absolutely fine to me.
i asked him to get back with me after a month cus i realised how much i loved him and he said no...i then bumped into him accidentally a month after that and we start to chat. i ask him why he doesnt want to get back and he says that its because he 'just doesnt want a girlfriend right now' so i suggest a 'casual realtionship' and he happily agrees. so from then on for the next 6 months thats what goes on and we end up sleeping together. everything is great and talk to each other for hours and hours each day until 1 day i feel that its wrong to just be sleeping with someone who doesnt want anything more with me.

so i tell him that i dont want to see him talk talk to him again...cuz of the reason i mentioned and also that it'd be best that we kept our distance (dont know what i was thinking) and all he says is 'fine!' but seems relly depressed about it. then a week later i realise i love him too much so i start talking to him again he does talk but just seems quieter than b4. the only thing he isnt apprehensive about is sex. i tried to make him laugh but he's just been distant to me ever since. i even apologised for the way i abruptly said i didnt want to see him again.

but the thing is i love this guy more than ive ever loved anyone and im SURE that from all the hints ive been dropping he must know that i really really love him and at times i too feel he loves me (you know when u just know that someone loves you)...like the way they look at you, the way they hold you and the things they do for you etc. BUT then all of a sudden he pulls back for a days and distances himself when i try to ask him why so i just leave him alone and then out of the blue he just comes and asks to meet up again (for sex that is)...i mean i know for scorpio's love is sex...well thats what ive heard but i may be wrong. god, this is so long! but what do u guys think? why do u think he acts the way he does?


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Girl, he acts the way he acts because YOU let him. I think you should stand back and make him work. Also, are you sure he's not seeing/sleeping with anyone else? That could be the reason for the "distance". Also, I'm sorry if this is mean, but...acting desperate is not attractive. Think back to how he acted when you were "playing hard to get" and the contrast now...after you started to proclaim your love. I think you have had your say and were open and honest enough...that you should either one move on and/or two start dating other people as well, so you're not only focused on him. (Scorpios are possessive, so he'll notice when you stop coming around.) Take time for yourself. This is bothering you too much and really, do you want somone that's gonna treat you like this? He moved you from being a sweetheart to a booty call. You have been officially demoted. Quit sleeping with him...and making it so easy for him. I know it's hard, but trust me, it's all for the better. Plus, that's where the saying, "absence makes the heart grow fonder". Just think about it and give him time and space. Good luck!


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