Aries and Cancer?!

Aries and Cancer?

For Aries: The Crab is far too sensitive and slow for your speedy and hot tempered nature. You will have difficulty listening to the Crabs nagging and negativity. This is really a poor match up right from day one. ( Source: Love Test )

For Cancer: This is not a very good combination for you. The Ram's lack of tact and their hot temper is just too devastating for your sensitive and insecure nature. ( Source: Love Test )

Quick fascination with each other when you first meet but things soon start to deteriorate. Cancer is cautious and Aries leaps without looking. Aries hates being tied down and Cancers heart is where the home is. Aries‘ sharp tongue wounds sensitive Cancer. The more aggressive Aries is the more defensive Cancer is. Soon Cancer will start to nag and Aries will look for greener pastures. (Source: Astrology Fun )


Aries Man & Cancer Woman

His Arian volatility will offend the Cancer lady's sense of domestic decorum and his casual cruelties will break her heart. If her hurt transmutes into a few of those colossal black moods that her sign is famous for, it might put a bit of the fear of God into even him. But it cannot end well .... (Source: AquarianAge Romance )

Forget it unless you like feeling limp all the time or thoroughly well steamed. (Source: AquarianAge Romance )

This is not a very good love match. When a Cancer girl gets involved with an Aries boy, you want to protect him and cherish him. Meanwhile, this type of snuggly closeness makes him feel smothered and trapped. He also has a bad habit of checking out other girls, which will make you feel incredibly jealous. He won’t apologize for his behaviour either and he’ll get irritated if you point out that he’s flirting. He’s too scared of being fenced in. He is not the type of guy who wants to settle into a cozy love nest, and that’s exactly the kind of loving you need. This match won’t last long. (Source: Jellybean's Astro-Soulmate Guide )

Cancer girl is about creature comforts, lasting friendships, and feeling cozy. Aries boy, as precious as he is, is about excitement and change-and that often doesn't mean catching some tv on the couch! While this can be a relationship of mutual admiration, just remember, you're two very different people! ( Source: FUNgirl - Astrology )


Aries Woman & Cancer Man

This poor fellow won't know what's happening to him from one day to the next as he passes in & out of purgatory. After a while, he might cease to care. His whirlwind wife, on the other hand, will interpret his kindness as weakness and his moodiness as fragility, either one of which on its own is more than enough to destroy her respect for him. ( Source: AquarianAge Romance )

Lots of anger and tears followed by intense and fast sex followed by a great meal, daily. (Source: AquarianAge Romance )

From all the signs an Aries could choose, a match with a Cancer has one of the worst hopes for survival. Yes, you are drawn to him. Yes, there is undeniable physical chemistry between you. But you are complete opposites in personality, and that makes a relationship between you almost impossible to keep alive. He is very possessive and clingy and tends to be mistrustful. You’ll all about having fun and being free. After a short time, his nagging will drive you totally crazy. This match is a bad bet for lasting love. (Source: Jellybean's Astro-Soulmate Guide )

There's no middle ground with you and Mr. Cancer, Aries. Chances are that at any given moment, he's either driving you up a wall or driving you crazy. Cancer is as stubborn and determined as you are, so be ready to roll with the punches and accept it if he tells you he'd rather stay home and watch TRL than hit the mall with you and your friends. The original homebody, Cancer needs some solitude once and a while. The good news: he's one of the most loyal guys in the zodiac. ( Source: FUNgirl - Astrology )

"When Aries and Cancer come together in a love affair, it's a case of opposites attracting. Aries is rash and brash while Cancer is sensitive and emotional. Aries can certainly be emotional -- in a fiery, impetuous way that can completely overwhelm Cancer. Even though Cancer usually likes to take time with relationships, Aries's whirlwind approach can be extremely stimulating. Aries, on the other hand, may find the Cancerian sensitivity appealing; it's a good balance for the typical Aries bluntness. Troubles may arise if Cancer's mood swings or Aries's aggression becomes hurtful. Both Signs must take time to listen to their partner's needs and understand that they're coming from different directions to meet a common goal.

Cancer is the Sign of Home while Aries is the Sign of Self. One great dynamic between these two is that both Signs are extremely protective of those they love. Cancer uses that Crab shell to draw around themselves and their family and mate when trouble is near, while the Ram uses their strength and bravery, like a knight in shining armor. Cancer also provides Aries with a happy domestic life and emotional security. Sometimes they might build an idealized image of their Aries partner or be overly possessive, which can really grate on independent Aries. However, Aries can help by reassuring their Cancer partner that they are loved and cherished. Aries really needs to learn to listen to Cancer: the Crab operates on an instinctive level and their advice can help Aries avoid making silly mistakes caused by that typical Aries lack of planning.

Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars and Cancer is ruled by the emotional Moon. Mars was the God of War, and Aries is a soldier meeting every challenge head-on. Aries's open, passionate nature appeals to Cancer, who often internalizes emotions and feelings. Cancer can have intense, feminine energy and Aries can help them learn to release it. The Moon controls tides of the Earth, quietly affecting all life; similarly, Cancer works behind the scenes (while Aries rushes into battle). Cancer tends to be sentimental and can teach Aries to slow down and appreciate life instead of always rushing on to the next thing.

Aries is a Fire Sign and Cancer is a Water Sign. These two elements can be a great combination if they work together, using both emotion and action to get things done. Cancer can help Aries slow down and learn to be gentle, while Aries teaches Cancer to come out of their shells. But Cancer can be emotionally manipulative -- sometimes there's just too much Water dampening Aries's enthusiasm. Conversely, too much Fire can cause Water to evaporate, leaving Cancer emotionally raw. Aries and Cancer must talk openly and freely to ensure their balance is maintained.

Aries and Cancer are both Cardinal Signs. Both Signs are initiators, but they have to learn to cooperate. On the surface, Aries is the leader, always rushing out to meet a challenge, but Cancer is also indirectly in charge through emotional control and the ability to weigh the situation. Cancer tends to compromise more easily while Aries can be unwilling to yield, so the Crab may have to accept giving in.

What's the best aspect of the Aries-Cancer relationship? Once they realize they're on the same team, the combination of Fire and Water works well together. Aries is out there getting attention and Cancer is quietly supporting the back end. Each partner's ability to provide what the other is lacking makes theirs an equal relationship." :)