My 17th birff-day is cuminq up; im movinq tho && all the money is qoin 2move; s0!
Question: My 17th birff-day is cuminq up; im movinq tho && all the money is qoin 2move; s0o im qoin 2be low on cash!?
wat shud i do =[
my s0o called sweet 16 was the same way t0o; i didnt do anythinq; see anyone; or qo anywhere; i dnt mind really if i dnt qet presentz; that not a prob!. 2me at all; my mom is struqlinq reallyyyyyyy* bad with money ryt nw && s0o we're movinq in with a friend cuz we're movinq outta he ex'z house; he had total control over her; everyyy* check tht qot sent 2over 2him; && he wudnt qive her shyt makinq up crap everytime wen she qot money && tht made him mad s0o he wud make uyp crap sayin she owes him ths && tht; she on probation && it reallyyy* hard 4her to qet a job even at fukinq ihop br0o; bt nw hes arrest cuz a domestic violence dispute; && nw we qot a restraininq order on him && he cnt *** bak 2ths house til we move out; my birr-day is sept!.5th [in a few weekz] im qettinq a job 2help my mom with payinq thinqz,etc!. he ex made* her sell her doqe truck, && niceeeeee* [im tlkinq reall nice] trailer; he he kepted sayinq she owed him all ths b!.s && she kepted fallinq for it everytime && nw we're fuked; s0o we;re movinq in with a friend of herz tht qoes 2her a&a meetinq shes ben qoin 2 [she ben doinq REAllYYY* qood with the druqz && alcohol; ill qive her tht; im truely proud of her] its his fault in the 1st place; she NEVRR drunk ths much until we moved her; my tolerance wud be really hiqh over thinqz; bt nw i cnt tolerate nada! i qet mad veryy* easly nw!. && she NEVRRR* used 2do druqqed until we moved here cuz hee* did them!->>he wanted 2have total controll over her makinq her sell everythinq possible leavinq her with nothinq; && hes nowz* shez on probation && knw its s0o0o0oo difficult 4her 2qet a job nw->>s0o hes accomplished it >=X
newayz; shes not qoin 2have anyyy money at all; bt i dnt mind tht rllyy* bt i jst wonderinq wat i cudd* d0o 2make it at least alil* special; feel me!? idk if im soundinq alil selfish cuz the situation thts alrdy qoin on && if i am them please tell me; i really* dnt have 2do nothinq for my b-day; a simple *happy birthday* will make me shine alday; ok; bt i was jst wonder; we can easily do a celebration afterr everythinq is ok aqain i cuz bt who know wenz tht qona happen; && if s0on thn wat* shud i do [ a 17yr old in miami with no kinda car] lol
[no smartass remarkz]
thnx <333Www@Enter-QA@Com
my s0o called sweet 16 was the same way t0o; i didnt do anythinq; see anyone; or qo anywhere; i dnt mind really if i dnt qet presentz; that not a prob!. 2me at all; my mom is struqlinq reallyyyyyyy* bad with money ryt nw && s0o we're movinq in with a friend cuz we're movinq outta he ex'z house; he had total control over her; everyyy* check tht qot sent 2over 2him; && he wudnt qive her shyt makinq up crap everytime wen she qot money && tht made him mad s0o he wud make uyp crap sayin she owes him ths && tht; she on probation && it reallyyy* hard 4her to qet a job even at fukinq ihop br0o; bt nw hes arrest cuz a domestic violence dispute; && nw we qot a restraininq order on him && he cnt *** bak 2ths house til we move out; my birr-day is sept!.5th [in a few weekz] im qettinq a job 2help my mom with payinq thinqz,etc!. he ex made* her sell her doqe truck, && niceeeeee* [im tlkinq reall nice] trailer; he he kepted sayinq she owed him all ths b!.s && she kepted fallinq for it everytime && nw we're fuked; s0o we;re movinq in with a friend of herz tht qoes 2her a&a meetinq shes ben qoin 2 [she ben doinq REAllYYY* qood with the druqz && alcohol; ill qive her tht; im truely proud of her] its his fault in the 1st place; she NEVRR drunk ths much until we moved her; my tolerance wud be really hiqh over thinqz; bt nw i cnt tolerate nada! i qet mad veryy* easly nw!. && she NEVRRR* used 2do druqqed until we moved here cuz hee* did them!->>he wanted 2have total controll over her makinq her sell everythinq possible leavinq her with nothinq; && hes nowz* shez on probation && knw its s0o0o0oo difficult 4her 2qet a job nw->>s0o hes accomplished it >=X
newayz; shes not qoin 2have anyyy money at all; bt i dnt mind tht rllyy* bt i jst wonderinq wat i cudd* d0o 2make it at least alil* special; feel me!? idk if im soundinq alil selfish cuz the situation thts alrdy qoin on && if i am them please tell me; i really* dnt have 2do nothinq for my b-day; a simple *happy birthday* will make me shine alday; ok; bt i was jst wonder; we can easily do a celebration afterr everythinq is ok aqain i cuz bt who know wenz tht qona happen; && if s0on thn wat* shud i do [ a 17yr old in miami with no kinda car] lol
[no smartass remarkz]
thnx <333Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
You and your mom have been through a lot, and you're both survivors! You should be really proud of yourselves!!
I'm sorry that your birthday won't be the great day it should be, but there are always ways to make the most of it!. Go somewhere fun, like the beach, or bake a cake (it's a cheap alternative to buying one)!. Scrapbook your baby photos with your mom or ask her to tell you stories of what you were like as a baby!.
If you have friends, ask them to come over or meet them somewhere!.
Just because things are difficult doesn't mean you can't have a good time and celebrate this milestone!
And you're not being selfish!. We all want to feel special and appreciated on our birthday!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm sorry that your birthday won't be the great day it should be, but there are always ways to make the most of it!. Go somewhere fun, like the beach, or bake a cake (it's a cheap alternative to buying one)!. Scrapbook your baby photos with your mom or ask her to tell you stories of what you were like as a baby!.
If you have friends, ask them to come over or meet them somewhere!.
Just because things are difficult doesn't mean you can't have a good time and celebrate this milestone!
And you're not being selfish!. We all want to feel special and appreciated on our birthday!.Www@Enter-QA@Com