2 guys, 1 girl.. and they're friends? what shall i do?!


Question: ok so i went out with this guy for the 1st time. went to this bar to meet a bunch of his friends. some had dates and some didnt. then his friend walked in and he was so cute. so i did the worst thing i could ever do. while the guy i came with wasnt looking i flirted with his cute guy friend. we ended up exchanging numbers and we talk all the time and even hang out. im just worried what if we're out somewhere and we see his friend (the original guy) what would he think? should i tell him what happend or just let it go?


Answers: ok so i went out with this guy for the 1st time. went to this bar to meet a bunch of his friends. some had dates and some didnt. then his friend walked in and he was so cute. so i did the worst thing i could ever do. while the guy i came with wasnt looking i flirted with his cute guy friend. we ended up exchanging numbers and we talk all the time and even hang out. im just worried what if we're out somewhere and we see his friend (the original guy) what would he think? should i tell him what happend or just let it go?

Be honest with him, and do it in person. It's the right thing to do. He's more than likely (about 98% sure) gonna be pretty pissed at both of you. Realize that you might've done serious damage to a friendship, but if you both can live with it, and if it's what you REALLY want, you have to follow your heart.
It's not gonna be pretty for awhile, so hold on for a bumpy ride.

If the the guy you went with for the first time isn't pursuing you any further, like, no calls or anything, then I wouldn't worry too much, because he probably wasn't interested in you..
Still, I always think that honesty is the best policy, so to avoid a stickier situation, if you feel you can or are able to, might wanna give him a heads up.. you and your new guyfriend will feel alot more guilt free afterwards. :)



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