How can I get my Ex Girlfriend back? Advice please.?!
Question: We went to business school together. She is 29 and I am 25. We were casual friends in college, focused on school,not dating. When school ended I asked her out on a few dates:1) I was nominated to receive an award for college and asked her to go with me to the dinner at the Dean's house2). We went to an Airshow.Dates 3-5 were just dinner/chilling at her place and watching movies.I really liked her, and did not touch her til the 4th date because I wanted her to know that I was interested in her mind, and what was inside as well as her outside beauty.Things got really hot and heavy. We spent a lot of time together even on weeknights over at her place. She and I were both really excited. We took a long weekend vaca. up north with my fam one week and then the next week we went up with her family.Then She started having some job stress in her life and needed time alone. I pushed a little harder than I should to get her to talk about it. I guess I invaded her space. She broke up with me.Help!
Answers: We went to business school together. She is 29 and I am 25. We were casual friends in college, focused on school,not dating. When school ended I asked her out on a few dates:1) I was nominated to receive an award for college and asked her to go with me to the dinner at the Dean's house2). We went to an Airshow.Dates 3-5 were just dinner/chilling at her place and watching movies.I really liked her, and did not touch her til the 4th date because I wanted her to know that I was interested in her mind, and what was inside as well as her outside beauty.Things got really hot and heavy. We spent a lot of time together even on weeknights over at her place. She and I were both really excited. We took a long weekend vaca. up north with my fam one week and then the next week we went up with her family.Then She started having some job stress in her life and needed time alone. I pushed a little harder than I should to get her to talk about it. I guess I invaded her space. She broke up with me.Help!
You sound like the pefect gentleman. From the sounds of things, unless you missed a major detail, there's nothing you can do to get her back, because you did nothing to cause her to break up with you.
Stress tends to make us respond in ways that we may not always understand. Try pulling back a little and just be her friend. When I'm stressed, having a good friend to go to is sometimes better than anything else.
Once the fog clears, she may realize that you are more than just a good friend; then she may want to resume the relationship. If that fails, just pull back altogether.
You know that addage...you never miss the water til the well runs dry? She'll be the one saying it.
If it's meant to be, she'll get back with you. give her some space.
Well it doesnt sound like you had a really bad break up so she would probably be willing to date again. Just dont be so darn pushy!! :) Just give her a call and see if she wants to go out to LUNCH to catch up, lunch wont seem so "datey". Good luck
Maybe you should call her and one apologize if you came on too strong and two tell her how you feel. I love when my husband is totally honest with me and shares exactly what he's feeling. Make sure she feels the same about you before you try to proceed with a relationship. If she doesn't then find someone who loves you as much as you love them. Good luck!
She's stressed out. Give her some space, Let her know that your always there(not by just telling her, by showing her too). Don't push too hard. Try to talk it over with her in a nice calm relaxing environment...If things really were that great, she'll come around. Other than that if you really like her, don't give up on her.
Yo got all up in her kool aid. Guyz these days don't kno when to back up. Just leave her alone for a little longer. Then you call and go to dinner and just talk and laugh