I believe a relationship is give and take..have you ever been in a relationship !


Question:

I believe a relationship is give and take..have you ever been in a relationship like the 1 i have just left?

and the other persons just took...how did it make you feel on reflection? angry ...sad...etc....?


Answers:

I've been on both sides of your question; taker and taken. Neither one feels good.
Being the victim of a taker feels horrible. You go through all the same emotions in dealing with death; denial, anger, bargaining, depression and, hopefully, acceptance. But it's often a long process.
Being the one doing the victimizing is just a damaging but it takes longer for the abuser to realize that the real victim is himself (or herself). The victim will, in time, heal. The victimizers just keeps on repeating the same crap and causing themselves more and more damage until something, also hopefully, happens to break the cycle.


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