I'm starting to feel lonely and I dont know what to do about it?!


Question:

I'm starting to feel lonely and I dont know what to do about it?

I just recently got out of a horrible relationship with a guy. He ended up being a jerk and just wanted to use me. But Thank God I didn't let it get that far. He kind of came out of nowhere and I was single which was fine with me. But after this ordeal I feel like I need some companionship and not necessarily a relationship. Just someone to keep me busy and keep my mind off of what happened to me. That guy almost caused me to take my life. that's how bad it was. I don't know whats wrong with me. I don't want to look for anyone but at the same time I do because I'm lonely....


Answers:

Wow, well…I’m sorry. That really sucks *ss to put it bluntly. Well, short term I always like to sit back, relax, crack open a few thousand beers and feel sorry for myself. However, more long term I know how it is to be lonely. I got out of a long term relationship as well, and mostly all my friends and group of people we use to hang out with have either moved, or we just don’t hang out anymore. Even though I have friends, I don’t have any really close friends. I’m stuck at home sometimes on a nice Sunny day inside, rather than by a pool or on a patio having drinks with good friends.
For you I’d say…if you have a pet they always help. As stupid as it sounds my dog has always been there for me. I talk to him and he just looks at me…but, I get it all out. So, if you like pets then maybe get a new dog. You can train it, take care of it and it’ll take up a ton of your time.
If you play sports, that helps as well. Working out or playing sports will give you more confidence and take a lot of time. You could do competitive sports or join some sport and social league in your area. Like for me we have the Dallas Sport and Social club. They are in a lot of cites. Also, try www.kickball.com. I play kickball and it’s fun, social and you can meet people.
If you don’t play sports, or if you do try www.meetup.com. They have tons of singles events, and meetups for just about everything you could think of. Or, if you are on www.myspace.com there are some groups on there as well. Check it out. What ever you do, please don’t take your own life. My father took his own life, and I think that is a very selfish way to go out. It has a far more reaching effect on the people around you that love you. Best of luck to you, I hope things turn around. Hang in there and they will.


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