I am in love with a celebrity?!
Question: I am so bad that I cannot read anything about him, I absolutely avoid anything that has to do with him just incase I hear he has a girlfriend or is engaged because I will be devasted. And I will not tell you who he is becuase if u say something bad about him I will cry. not really cry, but i will be hurt. btw this is not a teeny bopper he is over 35 and I'm 24.
Is anyone else like this or am I crazy?
Answers: I am so bad that I cannot read anything about him, I absolutely avoid anything that has to do with him just incase I hear he has a girlfriend or is engaged because I will be devasted. And I will not tell you who he is becuase if u say something bad about him I will cry. not really cry, but i will be hurt. btw this is not a teeny bopper he is over 35 and I'm 24.
Is anyone else like this or am I crazy?
is he sharolaid gurl?
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no jk but you're not crazy.... just know that there is a 20 percent change of you meetin him, hes more closer than you think!
obsession is normalish, but if it gets so bad it interferes with your life get help,
i myself have nice fantasy's about orlando bloom and get annoyed when i read about him having a girlfriend but at the end of the day, hey i know the chance of me meeting him are about 1 in 100000000000000000000000000000000
so meh, i live on
and you should too
cause if u meet this celeb nothing will chase him off more then an psycho obbsesses fan
My teen years were full of desperate crushes on movie stars... so I can understand where you are coming from, although I am a bit concerned to hear that you are still so in love at 24. Have you tried dating other guys? Maybe it will help to remember that you don't really know this person. What you know is an image of him created by his publicist - it's not real. If this continues it might be worth talking to someone about the relationships in your life and how they have affected you.
I don't think your crazy I just think you really like him....well love him
You're crazy.
Okay maybe not, my dream was once to meet Adriana Lima, but I wouldn't cry if someone insulted her.
You are definately NOT crazy!!! :))
Its a disease :))
I was once like that but started liking guys i could talk to..:))
I fell in love with a book character once...:))
EDWARD ? From Twilight...:)) i still LOVE ? him!!!!
good job your crush wasnt on Heath ledger isn't it?
Your celebrity is just that, an image. The person that he is, bears no resemblance to the real person, so you cannot be in love with him because you really dont know him.
With love and compassion I say to you: get a life. I mean it, go out and meet real people, there is someone out there worthy of your affection. Dont waste your life yearning for the impossible.
I don't know, you sound a little bit crazy to be in love with someone that you don't even know. All you know is a stage persona. Have you even met this person???? I think the answer to that question is no. Can you imagine how this person would react if they knew how you felt about them or even if they met you? I would be kinda flattered but creeped out that someone could love me never having met me.
NAH IM IN LUV WIF ANTHONY KIEDIS HAVE BEEN FAE I WAS A WEE TOT ONE DAY ILL GET HIM I SAID THAT ABOUT MY HUSBAND WHEN I USED TO GO TO SKOOL WIF HIM AND NOW WERE MARRIED XXXXX
bang your head to the wall..
it will help...
Grow up.
How can you be having irrational crushes on people you've never met when you're 24?
You're definitely crazy.
**EDIT**
You have a boyfriend, but still you're in love with a celebrity. Yep - you are still crazy.
That's pitiful.
It's okay to like people but to be upset if someone says something bad about them or if they have a girlfriend or something like that is a bit much.
you don't "love" them. you don't even know them.
You are not alone, but you do need to get a grip on the reality, that the celebrity doesn't know you as a individual exist, and so therefore is living their life, with no thought of you other than another person who exists.
If you continue with this mind set, you may need to seek some form of counselling.
Mind you, sometimes it's nice to have the fantasy, because reality is sometimes, a awful person to know.
Uh. . get a life!!! You are in love with the fictional CHARACTERS this guy plays. . . do you really know him at all????? What do you REALLY know about this guy?? Most likely he is like every other hollywood type. . . bouncing from woman to woman and doing drugs!! But you're in love with him huh? Maybe spend more time actually LIVING your own life and less living vicariously through some douchebag who probably would turn his nose up at you. Not being mean. . .just trying to help you move on with REAL LIFE!!!
Well b4 i got marreid i used to be soo crazy abt Clive robertson and some other actor...i was so nuts abt him says my friends ha haaa... but i dont think i was so crazy abt him like u..u dont even wanna read anyting rgding this actor???
but see.... as girls we get crushes at some point in life. and ur just 24.young. so its normal. but i knwo it hurts to think of da person u admire so much cant be actually around u. or u cant get near to that person coz he lives pretty far maybe?
but just thirnk and see...if u continue to be like this it will make u even more miserable. stil even if u find out he has a gf or engaded or marreid..its not going to change anything in ur mind. now see if i like brandon routh coz he is so gorgeous..wut the point? he can just be one of my fav stars...thats all. i cld never get near to him wutso ever..and he would never hear of me either and he is married so am i..so i cant be thinking abt him and having crushes. in ur case..when u come to certain age u might reduce thinking of this actor trust me i know u will..btw im 25 yrs old too. u said this guy is over 35! age is nothing but he is an actor and u know he is defi seeing somebody ot i dunno h ehe...but cheer up now...maybe u will come across a guy who is alot like him and u will fall in love and have a life togheter...of he is the one for u and is honest ofcoz. just enjy ur life and be happy for that actory thaty is more than enough. if ur close to holly wood then maybe u can visit fim city or something if its possible he he... but just dont do anything without thinking twice if u ever find out he is married okay!!.. we cant change anything in this world but we can make ourselve happy ifwe want to. TC
At 24, you are a bit old to be in love with a celebrity, but what you have is not love since as a fellow answerer points out, you don't even really know this person. You are obsessed. I also would not call people demeaning names like teeny bopper since most of the teens I have come to know during my teaching days never were obsessed the way you are now. Get over it - and, if you can't do it by yourself, get professional help.
You are not crazy. Me too i fantasizing other celebrities. Yes.. i do understand your feelings that's how i feel too. Believe it or not i cant even sleep just to think about him. Oh no. They said that I'm obsessed already. But, i can still do things that's supposed to be done. But i cant deny that it really affects everything in me, i bought all the stuff related to him and everything. And would never apologize to anyone just to have fight about him. Each one of us has a creative imagination. Sometimes others refer to it as dream world. It's ok to have your own world or dream world as long as you can still accept the real one. But if you cannot get out of it. It means that you choose to abandon yourself to live the world you wanted to but Quite far from the REALITY. If this thing happens that's the time that one needs a psycho assistance.
There are plenty of people like you. I wouldn't call you "crazy" but yes, I'd say you might be showing signs of having Celebrity Worship Syndrome which is a form of a obsessive/compulsive disorder. Awareness is the first step to not falling over the edge, so it's good you're realizing that something might be a bit off kilter.
It's ok to admire stars, or even harbor a bit of a crush, just keep things in perspective, that's all. Know that it's just a fantasy, that the person is more than likely not attainable, and make sure you're not focusing intensely on the stars in an effort to not have to face other issues in your life like perhaps loneliness or depression or maybe even frustration on your job or with other people whose flaws are more apparent than the one whom you are idealizing.
Use the admiration of the stars to incorporate some of their success to propel yourself forward...in other words, develop your talents, improve your self and BE the star of your own life, not just live vicariously through them.